Motivation

Top Ten (10) Empathy Lessons Trending in the New Year of 2019

I need to learn to expand and contract my empathy. This is my TRUTH. I am reblogging this lengthy post because it is an eye opening and definitely timely message that I needed. I have often thought about why some people can shut the door on others quickly and I struggle to do so. I’m empathic to a fault! I need to work on it. This blog post makes good sense to me.

Empathy Lessons

10. Empathy versus bullying: in mud wrestling with a pig, everyone gets dirty – and the pig likes it. How to deal with bullying without becoming a bully? Set firm limits – set firm boundaries – thus far and no further! Being empathic does NOT mean giving up the right to self defense. It means listening carefully, and responding accordingly.

Empathy is the emotional equivalent of jujitsu – use the aggressor’s energy to send him flying the other way. Being empathic does not mean being nice, agreeable, or even being disagreeable. It means knowing what the other person is experiencing because one experiences it too as a sample or trace affect. By all means, try to be friends: “Courtesy don’t cost ya nothin’.” Make an extra effort – and go the extra mile. But do not surrender one’s integrity or basic human values. However, taking a walk in the other person’s…

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